Spirit
Writing For The Ungifted
by Bob Olson, OfSpirit.com Editor
If you're the type who
can't predict tomorrow's date with a calendar in your hand, have
never had a dream visitation from a deceased loved one, or
wouldn't recognize a sign from spirit if it knocked you over,
Spirit Writing might be for you. Similar to Automatic Writing
but without the "automatic," Spirit Writing is a
method of communicating with spirits through writing (with a
pen, keyboard, crayon or any writing tool you prefer). Some
prefer to call this Inspired Writing.
I’d
like to begin by telling you the story of how I began Spirit
Writing myself, explain some of the lessons I learned along the
way, and then I will teach you how to do this yourself in 7
simple steps.
I
began my spiritual journey years ago as a stubborn
cynical skeptic. In January of 1999, I stumbled upon a gifted
psychic medium who basically blew my mind and turned my world
upside down. The reading I had was so filled with evidence of
life after death that it convinced
me to write my next book about mediumship (psychic mediums and
spirit communication). Of course, having
been a skeptic all my life, I needed to do a lot of research and
investigation before I was ready to begin writing. I didn’t
complete the book until five years later.
Having
met some extremely gifted spiritual practitioners during more
than a decade of research, I have realized that I might be the most ungifted
person in the world. It doesn’t help, I'm sure, that my
tendency is toward skepticism until I can prove to myself that
something is legitimate. Yet, I have sought to find my own
practice for spirit communication since I believe strongly that no one should become dependent
upon another person for his or her spiritual connection. Hence,
my search for a method that I could use to link with spirit on
my own.
I
finally found that method when I learned about a technique
called Automatic Writing. In its most basic form, Automatic
Writing involves sitting down with a pen and paper, or at your
computer keyboard, and letting your hands and fingers begin
writing messages from spirit automatically. This technique is
directed toward those gifted few who are able to link with
spirit so powerfully that spirit literally takes control of
their hands and fingers and writes or types out these messages.
As you might expect, I gave it a shot without any success; that
is, my hands and fingers didn’t even twitch.
Teachers
of automatic writing insist that persistence is the key to
success; so I continued trying it fairly regularly. Nothing
happened. I read that it helps to meditate with some relaxing
music first; so I tried that too. Again, nothing. Then I learned
that it can help to ask a question first and wait for an answer;
so I asked a question and waited. Still, my hands seemed frozen
in place.
I
was beginning to give up, but someone told me that I should
begin writing imaginary answers to my question as a way to get
my hands moving. Then, if a connection with spirit takes place,
the spirit can just take over the writing. So, one day, I
decided to simply type the first thing that came into my mind so
that I would have something to write. After typing out my
question, I typed the first thoughts that popped into my head.
Interestingly,
an answer to my question was right there at the forefront of my
mind the second I asked the question. So I typed it into my
computer. Then I typed out another question as if I were having
a conversation with myself. And, once again, an answer popped
into my head; so I typed it. What I realized was that I was
typing frantically, faster than I could process the information.
In other words, I was typing so fast that I didn’t have time
to consciously think about and judge the answers I was writing.
Instead, I was purely having fun with it. I wasn’t worrying
about typos or mistakes; I just typed like a maniac.
Because
I’ve always been the eternal skeptic, I felt a little
disappointed when the voice I was hearing in my head was my own.
And this made me doubt that what I was writing was coming from
spirit. Yet I continued until I had a couple pages written just
to see how it all came out. When I was done, I read what I had
written. I thought, Huh? This didn’t read like anything I had written before. In fact, it was too full of wisdom to be
something I would ever write. It was slow and melodic in rhythm
and tone. As you can see, my writing isn’t like that at all.
So this got my attention and I continued to practice Spirit
Writing two or three times a week.
One
day, I was working with a psychic medium with whom I was testing for
my book on mediumship. I told her about my automatic
writing, that is, without the automatic part. This is when I
began calling it Spirit Writing, since my hands and fingers were
not typing automatically. The psychic medium immediately told me that my
uncle was in the room claiming to be the one who was coming
through in these writings. Now this uncle had never come through
in a reading before so the psychic medium knew nothing about him. I was
skeptical, as always, so I tested the psychic medium.
I said, “If this
is really my uncle, you’re going to have to prove it to me.
There is something about my uncle that identifies him
specifically, something you could never guess. If you can tell
me what that is, I’ll believe that it’s him coming through
in my Spirit Writing.”
Sure
enough, the psychic medium guessed that my uncle had a tattoo on his
foot. So I was given the evidence that I needed that indicated
to me that my Spirit Writing was truly coming from spirit, not
just from my own mind.
For
the ungifted, especially people like me who spent most of their
life as a skeptic, trusting that your Spirit Writing is really
coming from spirit is the hardest part. Since our hands and
fingers are not moving on their own, developing this trust is
even harder than learning how to do it. It takes practice,
testing and a whole lot of faith. But eventually you realize
that there is no way that you could be writing this stuff. For
me, I realized that there is too much wisdom coming through in
these writings. If I had this incredible insight inside of me, I
wouldn’t need to be Spirit Writing.
So
here are the 7 Simple Steps for Spirit Writing:
1. Sit down with a pen and paper, or at your computer. You
can also use a crayon, marker or a piece of chalk if you
want—whatever writing tool you enjoy most.
2. Write down a question that you would like answered. It
can be about a relationship, your career, or health—wherever
you need some guidance.
3. Some people like to begin with a prayer of intent and
protection. Pray to your Source or spirit guides that only
“advanced, higher-energy beings who are in the light and love
of God” come through in your Spirit Writing.
4. Relax and/or meditate for ten or fifteen minutes. Listen
to a meditation CD or audiotape, if you have one. What I like
about using music to relax is that I use the same music all the
time, so my mind knows that I’m going to be Spirit Writing the
second I turn it on, which immediately sends me into the right
state of mind. If you listen to your music with headphones, it
also helps to block out distractions.
5. When you are ready, ask your question. You can read it
out loud or silently to yourself.
6. Now begin typing the very first thoughts that come into
your mind. Do not hesitate. Do not judge or consciously think
about what answer you are getting. Just try to write or type as
fast as you can to record the answer. And don’t worry about
typing mistakes, misspellings or any errors; just keep writing.
Also, it doesn’t matter if you do this with your eyes open or
closed. That’s a personal preference. Try it both ways and see
what you prefer. And, finally, don’t expect it to be someone
else’s voice in your head. The thoughts are “inspired” by
spirit, not spoken in the spirit’s voice, although it's also
not impossible to another's voice. If you do, you're simply more
gifted in this area than most and might consider taking a course
on psychic medium development.
7. If you are having trouble when you try Spirit Writing for
the first time, just make up an answer. Write what you think a
higher being might say to you if they were giving you advice on
your question. You might be surprised to recognize that what you
are making up is actually inspired guidance.
Here
are some further tips to help you:
1. Answers from spirit will always be loving in nature,
never having a tone of being hurtful, vengeful or negative. This
doesn’t mean you will always like the advice being given, but
the advice will be for good, not bad.
2. Don’t ask for choices. Spirit won’t make decisions
for you. Instead, ask for advice and guidance. This means
avoiding yes or no questions. Since we all have freewill, spirit
can only lead us toward the best choice, not tell us what choice
to make.
3. Don’t test your guides or loved ones in spirit by
asking details of which you already know the answer. Spirit
Writing is a sacred experience and should be treated as such.
4. To get over your skepticism or
lack of trust in the
process, a third-party practitioner such as a psychic medium, psychic or
meditation teacher might be able to help you at the beginning,
like when the psychic medium told me my uncle was coming through in my
early Spirit Writing. But the point of this exercise is to learn how
to communicate with spirit on your own, without having to rely
on a third-party practitioner, so don’t become dependent upon
someone else for your Spirit Writing.
5. Don’t think that you need to know who is coming through
in your Spirit Writing. It’s the advice and guidance that
matters, not always who is giving it. Sometimes, it might even
be more than one spirit (many channelers talk with a group of
spirits). So don’t get caught up in the
“who,” because it's the advice that's important. Some people
like to think that the messages coming through are from their
“Higher Self.” As long as you say your prayer of intent and
protection, only advanced, higher-energy beings will be coming
through.
6. In my experience, Spirit Writing is a personal
experience. While you might be able to connect with your
friend’s spirits after you get good at this, I believe it is
better to teach your friend how to do this on their own, rather
than have them rely upon you for all their spirit communication.
7. Some people like to begin Spirit Writing for a set period
of time, ten or twenty minutes. If this fits your personality,
or if you only have a limited amount of time to do it, set an
alarm so that you aren’t looking at the clock or worrying
about the time.
8. Think ahead to avoid interruptions. Ask people not to
interrupt you for twenty minutes. Use the bathroom if necessary.
Unplug the phone. Anticipate noises and potential interruptions
that will disrupt your Spirit Writing, and do your best to avoid
them.
9. Try to do your Spirit Writing at the same time each day.
Not only will your mind be better prepared, but your loved ones
in spirit and spirit guides will know that every day at ten
o’clock (or whatever time you choose) is when you’ll be doing this.
10. After a Spirit Writing session, don’t read what
you’ve written immediately. If you can, put it aside for a few
hours, or even a day, before reading it. And have someone else
read it to you so you can more easily recognize that it
doesn’t sound like your voice or writing, provided you don’t
mind that person reading your private messages. You will be
amazed at how different your Spirit Writing reads in comparison
to your normal voice and writing style.
As
with everything, practice makes perfect. The key here is to keep
doing this regularly for at least 30 days. If it isn’t for you
after a month, then maybe it isn’t for you. However, I
haven’t taught this to one person who hasn’t experienced
incredible results. And, with practice, it just keeps getting
better.
This article resulted from a chat seminar Bob
Olson was invited to do on James Van Praagh's website. For more
information about James Van Praagh's chat seminars, visit www.VanPraagh.com
Bob
Olson is a former private investigator
and skeptic who began using his investigation skills to research
psychics, psychic mediums and the afterlife in 1999. This research led
him to establish OfSpirit.com
Magazine (2000), BestPsychicMediums.com
(2001) and BestPsychicDirectory.com
(2007), three of the most trusted and influential sources for
understanding and locating trustworthy psychics and psychic mediums.
Today
Bob Olson has tested hundreds of psychics and psychic mediums around the
world and has become a leading authority on the subject with TV,
movie and documentary producers, journalists, book publishers,
event promoters, as well as law enforcement agencies and private
investigators. Bob’s achievements in psychic and medium
investigation and testing has further allowed him to evaluate
and isolate the key components that set apart the best psychic
medium readings from the mediocre—leading him to create his
famous (although secret) 15-point test.
Bob
has documented his findings in a multitude of articles. He has
authored the Forewords for three books: The Complete Idiot's
Guide To Communicating With Spirits, Consult Your Inner
Psychic and The Complete Idiot's Guide To Divining The
Future. Bob has also been quoted as an expert in How To
Get A Good Reading By A Psychic Medium and Empowering
Your Life With Angels. He is also the author of Win The
Battle and How To Beat Depression.