Final
Words On Knowing And The Shift Of Spiritual Consciousness
A Summation Of Three Breathtaking And Bizarre Years
By Bob Olson
After three breathtaking and bizarre years of studying
psychics and psychic mediums, my incredible journey continues daily. For
whatever reason, I tend to meet a new psychic or psychic medium every month or so.
Every week I have contact with several whom I already know. I
don’t know why psychics or psychic mediums are drawn to me, or why I am
drawn to them, but I can no longer deny that there must be a
purpose, one that I believe is greater than this book alone.
Yet, I can only wait to discover where this is all going. I will
find out when I am supposed to know.
People
in the holistic and spiritual community keep telling me that
there is a shift of spiritual consciousness going on in our
world. All evidence that I have witnessed points in that
direction. More and more people are discovering that they have
psychic or mediumistic abilities. More and more people are discovering
psychics and psychic mediums. In the last few years, I have observed many signs
indicating this shift just within my own limited experiences.
I
first witnessed the public’s incredible craving for spiritual
knowledge when Melissa and I interviewed Vicki on a
Worcester radio station while we substituted for John Alexandrov
as radio hosts during his vacation. As I mentioned in an earlier
chapter, the call-in lines were jammed for two hours and the
station told John that people continued to call in for
information about Vicki for weeks after the show.
On
the same night that Melissa and I interviewed Vicki, The Sixth Sense movie opened. At first, Melissa and I
couldn’t believe how many people showed up to see the midnight
showing of this movie about a little boy who could see dead
people. But what followed was even more astonishing; a wave of
interest in spirit communication took the country by storm.
Every magazine, television and radio talk show throughout the
nation wanted to interview psychic mediums to satisfy the public’s
thirst for knowledge on this subject. World-popular psychic mediums like
Sylvia Browne, James Van Praagh, George Anderson and John Edward
became the rage. And their books became instant bestsellers.
A
few months later, Vicki and I were guests on The
Jordan Rich Show on WBZ 1030 AM. With an audience
across the country and into Canada, not only did the radio
station’s caller lines jam up, but a pile of people tried to
detour the busy signals by calling WBZ’s sister television
station, Channel 4 Boston, as well as the media corporation’s
traffic center. Jordan Rich had never seen anything like it in
all his years as a radio personality.
My
next experience indicating a massive shift in consciousness came
when a small magazine of about 200,000 readers printed the first
chapter of this book. I wrote most of that chapter shortly after
my first reading with Vicki, and I published it on OfSpirit.com
for people to read. The editor of Spirit
of Change magazine saw it on the website and asked
if she could publish it in her magazine. On the first day it hit
the stands, people started calling both Vicki and me. Vicki’s
clientele instantly grew from a waiting list of three months to
about ten months. And I was constantly bombarded with letters
and phone calls from readers who thanked me for sharing my
experience with them. At that point in my career, it was one of
the most touching experiences I had ever had in relation to my
writing.
Probably
one of the most obvious signs of this mass spiritual shift was
the lightning fast popularity of John Edward’s television
show, Crossing Over With John Edward. I remember reading on
John’s website that they were working on the show for the
Sci-Fi Network. This was months before it aired. I must admit
that I had my doubts that the show would ever get past all the
red tape and onto the screen. Nevertheless, when it did get on
TV, news of it among the populace spread like nothing I had ever
witnessed.
Even
my own skeptical friends and relatives who couldn’t get
themselves to talk to me about my work with psychics and psychic mediums were now
watching John’s show. People’s eyes were glued to their TV
sets and many prior nonbelievers wouldn’t miss an episode.
What James Van Praagh, George Anderson and Sylvia Browne did
with their books to open people’s minds about spirit
communication, John Edward’s show exploded to a new level.
First the network aired half-hour episodes four days a week. Yet
within a short time, due to popular demand, it was airing two
half-hour episodes back to back because people couldn’t get
enough. It seemed only months before Crossing
Over was syndicated and showing on stations all over
the dial.
As
time continued, it became obvious that the public’s interest
in spirit communication was not just a fad. Books by psychic mediums
continued to become bestsellers. Larry King, Montel Williams and
even Oprah continued to have psychic mediums on as guests. And the
psychic mediums I knew personally were growing at a record pace in their
careers and in the demand for their services.
When
I first met John, he was giving small demonstrations to
forty people in a tiny little room. Today, only a couple years
later, John gives psychic medium demonstrations to hundreds of
fascinated viewers several times a year. He has become so
well-practiced on stage that I regularly go to see him myself in
awe of his stage presence. He has also been contracted to write
two books, not just one, by Hay House, a major publisher in
metaphysical and spiritual nonfiction.
Vicki
has also made enormous strides in her mission to share
her gift with the world. She, too, now gives psychic medium demonstrations to audiences in the hundreds, numerous times each
year. Each time she announces a new event, it usually sells out
within a couple weeks. At the moment I write this, she continues
her mega-popular radio show in Portland, Maine; but I don’t
know how much longer that will last. She is currently in
negotiations for her own national television show on a major network and
a documentary about her life is already being filmed. It is hard
to believe that I was among her first ten clients during a time
when she had serious doubts that her little gift could turn into
a full-time career. Today, her waiting list for personal
readings reaches into the next couple of years.
Several
other psychic mediums I know are also beginning to be absorbed into the
media and on stage to share their gifts with the masses. Rita, the psychic medium who wowed me with her spirit
artistry, is used to getting up in front of audiences. But soon
she will also be a published author. She has recently been asked
to co-author The Complete
Idiot’s Guide To Communicating With Spirits (I’m
honored to be writing the Foreword in that book). Rita was
another psychic medium who I met when she was still hard-pressed to find
financial security using her multifaceted gifts. That is no
longer an issue. Today she struggles to find balance among her
personal life and the immense public demand for her mediumship,
spirit artistry and counseling services.
What
does it all mean? I won’t pretend to know. All I do know is
that changes are occurring that are beyond our comprehension.
And I don’t believe the September 11th tragedies
are a mere coincidence during this shift either. I don’t know
all the answers, yet I can’t help but to think that all those
people who died gave up their lives in order to teach us a major
lesson and accelerate this shift for our benefit. Now more than
ever, people are seeking to understand the essence of life and
thinking about the connectedness of all people regardless of
color, race or faith. People are giving more thought to the fact
that we are not separate, but instead, are all spiritually
connected—with one another and with the Source of love and
light.
The
newest leg of my journey has taken me to investigate death more
deeply. I believe we can learn an abundance about life by better
understanding death. Interestingly, I watched a movie called Wit
about a woman dying from cancer and immediately knew the focus
of my work would gravitate in this direction to help people who
are dying and those who are grieving. I knew that I had a
hopeful message to give that resulted from my research in spirit
communication and the afterlife.
That
message is that we should not be afraid to die because we do not
die. Nor do our loved-ones die. Death is everyone’s future and
everyone’s salvation. It is not something to be feared or
avoided. It is a relief. It is a return. It is a reunion. Death
means we have completed our journey, not failed at it. We are
not lost; we are found. We find our truth, our higher self and
our true home when we leave this earth. Death is God’s way of
saying, “You did a good job; you can come home now.”
When
I realized I needed to use my experiences to help people to not
fear death, I looked at my bookshelf to see what information I
might have on the subject. I was drawn to one tiny little book
titled, Don’t Be Afraid To
Die, by Gladys M. Hunt. As I pulled the book from the
shelf, it evoked a memory that enveloped my body in a wave of
emotion. I suddenly recalled that Melissa had given me the book
when she was twelve and I was fifteen years old. Her mother had
one of those home parties, only this one sold books rather than
Tupperware or Mary Kay Cosmetics. Melissa bought me the book
because it was the only one she could afford. It was $1.25. I
never thought it strange that she gave me a book about dying; I
simply cherished the gift and have kept it all these years. Yet
I never read it. Upon finding it again more than twenty-two
years later, I started to read it and couldn’t put it down. I
wondered why I had avoided it all these years. I guess it
wasn’t time yet.
Life
has a funny way of preparing us for the future. It turns out the
book Melissa gave me twenty-two years ago is now out-of-print. I
can only assume there is an important message within it that
only this book can provide me. Or perhaps it is just a reminder
that our life’s purpose is charted before birth and every
experience we have prepares us for what is to come. I trust that
either, or both, of these possibilities is true. That is one of
the benefits of knowing.
While
I have discussed being a knower in this book, I have not really
discussed the benefits of knowing. Although there are far too
many to list, and some benefits are purely subjective, I will
mention a few. The first that comes to mind is peace. I am at
peace. With that I mean that I have less fear. I am not
fearless, but I fear less. And perhaps most importantly, I do
not fear death. Still, as nice as the spirit world sounds, I
prefer to stay here right now. But losing my fear of death is a
wonderful gift. Since I believe many pathologies exist in this
world due to people’s fear of death, I believe this is one of
the greatest benefits to knowing. It gives me immeasurable
peace-of-mind.
The
second benefit to knowing that comes to mind is connectedness. I
know that we are never alone. Whenever I speak to a psychic medium
in
person or on the phone, the second I mention the name of a
loved-one who has passed to the spirit world, he or she shows up
instantly. I might mention my father and suddenly the psychic medium
is
telling me that he is there. This is true for everyone even when
a psychic medium is not present. All we need to do is think of someone
in the spirit world and we can know that they are with us. They
are next to us. They are reading our thoughts, our concerns, our
emotions and our love for them. Whatever we want to convey to
them, all we need to do is think of them and the message is
delivered. We are never alone. Be it spirits of loved-ones,
spirit-guides, angels or God Himself, we are being taken care of
at every moment even though we may not realize it.
The
third benefit that comes from knowing is trust. I trust that
whatever I am going through at any time is supposed to be
happening. If I am sick, it is meant to be for my benefit. If I
am healthy, that too has its lessons. If I struggle financially,
that is my gift. Even wealth has its struggles and lessons to be
learned. Everything we go through, be it birth or death,
marriage or divorce, poverty or wealth, sickness or health,
every circumstance, condition and experience is a gift for our
benefit.
In
reference to my knowing, many people have asked me what I know
about the stages of enlightenment. My first answer is that I
know nothing; nobody really knows until we cross-over. But I
will share with you my belief.
I
believe that we are all energy beams that reach out from the
Source, the light and love of God, like rays of light that reach
out from the sun. When we first leave the Source, we are blank
slates, eager to have experiences that will teach us all there
is to know. At first, our energy is low and dense because we are
new and inexperienced. As we have experiences that teach us
universal wisdom, our energy vibration (our frequency)
increases. And slowly, after many lives and many experiences,
our vibration slowly increases so that we work our way back to
the Source—the One with the highest vibration.
I
believe that we increase our energy and our knowledge by
experiencing the polar aspects of all there is to know. Our
knowledge gives us an appreciation and understanding that makes
us ever more complete with each new experience. In other words,
we learn from experiencing both sides of every possibility. In
order to fully understand and appreciate kindness, we must
experience cruelty. In order to fully understand and appreciate
joy, we must experience depression. In order to fully understand
and appreciate health, we must experience sickness. In order to
fully understand and appreciate comfort, we must experience
discomfort. And so it goes for every possible experience that
exists, we experience both sides of the spectrum in order to
understand and appreciate the opposite.
As
we reincarnate from one life to another, we can only take on so
many experiences at one time. In one life, we might learn about
loneliness and poverty. In another, we might grow to understand
addiction and codependency. In another, fame. In another,
companionship. In another, being needed and taking care of
someone in need. In another, mental illness. In another,
unconditional love. Sometimes we can handle two or three, or
maybe several, lessons in one lifetime. Sometimes one major
lesson may be all we can take and our life might be very short.
And some lives may even be strictly for the purpose of helping
someone else’s spiritual growth, although we always benefit
energetically whenever we help another soul in their journey.
As
we complete each lifetime, our energy frequency increases and we
grow closer to the Source. After several lifetimes, we are
vibrating at faster speeds and we have gained an understanding
and appreciation for many facets of being. It is my belief that
if someone finds themselves passionate about helping the
homeless or foster children or the mentally impaired, that they
have likely experienced that condition in a past life. This is
why they have compassion in this area and for these people,
because on a cellular and subconscious level they understand and
appreciate the circumstances and conditions that these people
know. This is why God, our Creator, has unconditional love,
compassion and understanding for us. He knows all sides of every
experience.
Some
people may choose not to return to earth for another lifetime
because lessons can also be learned in the spirit world. We can
help people on earth as spirit-guides ourselves, assist in
helping souls cross-over, comfort pets while they await their
earthly owners to return to heaven, or any number of possible
“jobs.” However, from what I have learned, we reincarnate
because spiritual growth is much faster here on earth. Similar
to the “No Pain, No Gain” philosophy regarding physical
fitness, the struggles we endure on earth are like going to the
health club to exercise. With each grueling work out (each
life), we return with rapid growth.
Every
time a life is ended, our souls return home to heaven. And each
time we return to the spirit world, we are instantly freed of
all pain and sickness, all fear and all earthly concerns. We are
instantaneously bathed in the comfort, joy and love of the
Ultimate Light. Regardless of how difficult our last lifetime
was, we sigh in our emancipation and think to ourselves, “Wow,
what a relief!” And as we discover the immense growth we
gained from that lifetime, we think, “Hey, that wasn’t so
bad. I can do that again.” And before we know it, we are
planning our next human journey.
With
each lifetime voyage we are even closer to reaching God’s
vibrational frequency—the ultimate, final destination. Then,
at some point we know all there is to know and have experienced
all there is to experience. We have the highest understanding
and appreciation attainable. And upon that last lesson, the
final earthly existence that completes us, we merge again with
our Creator to an eternity of euphoria and ecstasy.
That
is my interpretation of life and the afterlife according to my
experiences, research and beliefs over the last few years. I
can’t prove it, but it helps me to understand why bad things
happen to good people, why children suffer, and why God allows
the tragedies and sufferings of innocent human beings to exist.
Although it doesn’t make negative experiences any less tragic
or difficult to endure, and in no way do I intend to make light
of anyone’s suffering or hardships or suggest that we stand
idly by and watch people struggle—we should always do what we
can to ease the burdens of others—it helps me to believe there
is a spiritual purpose to life’s challenges. By believing that
we learn to know love as much by experiencing hate and suffering
as we do kindness and compassion, it helps me to make sense of
this world and trust that every person’s suffering will be
relieved and rewarded in the end.
Everything I have written
in these pages is my truth. I do not offer it to you so that you
will accept it as yours; but rather, so you will open your mind
to the possibilities in order to find your own truth. As I said
in chapter one, your journey need not involve mediumship. There
are multiple routes to spiritual enlightenment and growth.
Follow your intuition. Enjoy your own journey during this
spiritual shift of consciousness. And if you ever have the time,
please write to me and share your own story—perhaps even share
it with the world. God bless.
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BOB
OLSON is a former private investigator and skeptic who began
using his investigation skills to research psychics, psychic
mediums and the afterlife in 1999. This research led him to
establish www.
OfSpirit.com Magazine (2000), www.AfterlifeTV.com
(2011), www.
BestPsychicMediums.com (2001) and www.
BestPsychicDirectory.com (2007), three of the most trusted
and influential sources for understanding and locating
trustworthy psychics and psychic mediums.
Today
Bob Olson has tested hundreds of psychics and psychic mediums
around the world and has become a leading authority on the
subject with TV, movie and documentary producers, journalists,
book publishers, event promoters, as well as law enforcement
agencies and private investigators. Bob’s achievements in
psychic and psychic medium investigation and testing has further
allowed him to evaluate and isolate the key components that set
apart the best psychic medium readings from the
mediocre—leading him to create his famous (although secret)
15-point test.
Bob
has documented his findings in a multitude of articles. He has
authored the Forewords for three books: The Complete Idiot's
Guide To Communicating With Spirits, Consult Your Inner
Psychic and The Complete Idiot's Guide To Divining The
Future. Bob has also been quoted as an expert in How To
Get A Good Reading By A Psychic Medium and Empowering
Your Life With Angels.